Listen first. Ask what may help now. Offer one act, like a ride or help with a...

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Listen first. Ask what may help now. Offer one act, like a ride or help with a call. Say, “I can take you to your visit Tuesday, if you want.” Set kind limits on your time and care. It may take more than one talk, so check in again